just some thoughts.....

life is interesting....
each one of us has our very own personal experiences of the life we live!!!
we really truly can not know what another experience in their own life.
we really truly do not know, can not know, what another experiences ,
we each have our own experiences in our very own personal way.
each is uniquely ours alone.
although two or more may go through a shared experience together.....
each will experience it in their own way....
the experience will be colored by so many things....
feelings, concepts, beliefs, etc.....
all based on the past experiences of each individual
....to assume another is focused on your stuff, is sorta sad/funny...
as we each our the star of our own stage...
to think you know exactly what another is feeling our thinking is more often a mistaken assumption....
based/colored by our own experiences, colored by our own unhealed emotions...tangled in our own stuff.....
relationships are 2way streets so to speak...
whole & healthy relationships require honest open communication....
between whole & healthy individuals.....
we may each care for & love others in so many ways....
& yet do we?.... do they??,
really offer what the other needs,desires, requires???
our relationship with our own self is where true healing & forgiveness,acceptance begins....
when we love, forgive & know our true self....
when we heal our self to a healthy wholeness on all levels...
we begin to offer that to our relationship with others...
it starts there & expands out....
we offer the opportunity for another to come to a place of self love, self forgiveness, self acceptance....
all of these qualities/abilities are already with-in each of us!!!...
the path we walk in life offers each of us experiences to discover our wholeness...
and altho we each walk together .....
the perception of the me & the we & the they....
is so very often distorted & discolored by
misunderstandings & miscommunications...
often beginning in our personal relationship with our own real self...
to really know, accept, forgive & love another,comes from really knowing, accepting, forgiving & loving our self first.
the real self.... the whole self, the true self....
the self that is one with the source of all that is...
the self that is one with the Love that is real & true.
yes life is interesting....

it is meant to be explored & experienced as fully as possible!
& it happens thru all our relationships...
mostly with our relationship with self,
then nature, then other individuals...
all which are forms of Source....
all which are forms of Love.....

brightest blessings & loving hugs, earthdeva/molly <3